How to Hire an Escort

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How to Hire an Escort

Meeting an escort has a bad rep but it’s really not a lot different from casual dating. Just like casual dating, when you meet someone online they are going to be a complete stranger. They could misrepresent themselves, be different in person, or they could be amazing. It’s a gamble. But because money is involved the experience can turn sour very quickly and you might regret all of it. This is a pretty big deal not just in this industry but everywhere where money is involved.

Here are some very general tips on what to do when hiring an escort:

  • Read the ad. It wastes everyone's time if you don't
  • Screen before you meet. This is very important!
  • Avoid scams. Read the article on things to avoid when hiring an escort.

Screen Before Meeting

Screening people you meet doesn't necessarily mean you have to jump on a phone call or a video call. There is a level of anonymity that people want. However, it's a good idea to do some basic screening. This helps you weed out the time wasters, scammers, fake ads and so on.

It can start with few simple questions, like age and ethnicity. If there is more time being negotiated then doing a facetime verification is not uncommon.

Do not ever send anybody any money in advance, ever. Sorry providers, but in case you didn't know, your clients get ripped off by this almost all the time. A provider can sometimes ask for a deposit, especially if this is an outcall. This is fair, since people cancel appointments without notice a lot. However, a deposit should be small and screening in advance is a must. If you can avoid deposits then this is the safest bet.

Protect Your Privacy

When you are online you don’t know who you are dealing with. It’s fine if you trust people, but you should never leak out personal information. If you have not googled your name I suggest you do it now. There is plenty of information about you online already. You don't want to make this situation worse. Do not trust anyone with your personal information, and that is ANYTHING personal (SSN, health number, ID, Passport, Bank information, how many accounts you have, banks you work with, your address). 

It’s understandable that some people prefer the convenience over privacy, but the number of malicious users and misuse of personal information is growing every day. And if you are ever become a target of a scam attack they will not be very nice to you. Extortion, threats, and other tactics to get you to hand out money or more personal information are not uncommon. So protect your privacy and don’t give out personal information to anyone.

Stay Safe Out There

This list is not exhaustive but is a good start when going out there to meet strangers.

  • Do not send anyone any money. Period. It's understandable that escorts would sometime prefer deposits, but the number of scams far outweighs the benefit that escorts get. 
  • Screen thoroughly. This applies to providers too. You need to be comfortable with whoever you are meeting.
  • Do not give out any personal information, ever. No one needs to know your last name, ID, or any of that stuff.
  • Keep it classy when chatting via phone or email. You are hiring them for companionship and that is it.
  • Don’t drink or use any substance before meeting. It’s easy to be irresponsible under influence.
  • Stay out of it if you suspect anything suspicious. Quietly and politely disappear if you don’t want to continue. If you suspect something unawful report it.

Enjoy Your Time

You are hiring an escort not because you have to but because you want to. As a client you have a right to have special requests that might make this whole experience better. Be polite, respectful and don't be vulgar. You'll be surprised about the response you will get. This is about fun anyway so enjoy the process.